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4th Step Question!!



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    Anonymous

    @krug 2965756 wrote:

    PE teacher in 4th grade…….Beotch….hurt my self esteem…

    Especially in the 12 Step forum, I think it helps to be clear about the directions for the Steps. Just so there is no misunderstanding, the example I quoted is a very skeleton example of an inventory entry.

    I found that the more specific I could be about why I was resentful, the more it helped me to see what in that 3rd column was threatened. That helped me to see the fear that drove my actions. Saying I resent someone because they are a beotch would not have cut it for me or my sponsor.

    Just so it’s clear, the page 67 directions get to the heart of the resentment inventory. Putting out of my mind entirely the wrongdoing of others, I ask where have I been selfish, self-seeking, dishonest, or frightened. What were my faults, where was I to blame.

    And, let’s forget the fear, sex, and harms done to others parts of the inventory. That sex inventory had a profound impact on my relationships with others.



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    Anonymous

    Ok…I don’t know anything about a dang list, lol. Where do I find info. about step 4?



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    yasmar
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    @altohandsom 3004748 wrote:

    Ok…I don’t know anything about a dang list, lol. Where do I find info. about step 4?

    P65 of the big book of Alcoholics Anonymous. Do you have a copy?



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