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Making amends for a resentment?



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    Anonymous

    What did you do to her as a result of that hidden resentment? If nothing, no amends. IF something, make amends. Remember it’s not about justifying your behaviour (sorry I kept on cutting you off for example, but it’s because I was harboring a resentment) Rather it’s I acknowledge I cut you off when speaking about x. I was wrong. Please accept my apology (apology is not an amend but rather an entry to an amend) How can I make it better? Or can I suggest that I do x to make it better. e.g. I commit to always hearing you out even if I disagree with you. That kinda thing.
    This is such an INCREDIBLE PROGRAM!!!
    Cathy31
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    Anonymous

    It’ is an old thread but still, you know Cathy, what you wrote about amends is so clear and purposeful, so helpful, it deserved a good bump, imo.
    Cheers! 🙂
    Rob



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    Anonymous

    Robbie thank you! I’ve always found it rather easy to give advice LOL! 🙂 Jokes, but at least in recovery I’m usually basing it on what I’ve been taught and what I’ve physically done!

    We are so blessed! 🙂

    Cathy31
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