Thank you so much for your thoughtful response, Sharon. I definitely don’t want to leave out anything important in this step, nor “hurt others to save my own skin”. And you’re right: I’ll be doing this step again in the future and (hopefully) will have learned more by then. Besides, there’s plenty of stuff I do know needs to go in my inventory, which I suppose I’ll go work on right now. Thank you again for sharing your kindness and wisdom.
Even if you displayed some of these character defects in your sex life, you do not have to disclose the gender or even the real name of the people you were with. Just focus on your behavior so it gets on your inventory, and you can deal with it in steps 5 thru 9.