- June 8, 2016 at 2:27 pm #4686900
Sponsor gave me a list of 171 questions
and like 1/4 of them are about sex. Very specific questions. How old were you when you first masturbated, how did you feel about that…right on down to “what is your sex life like”, and ……..
Blah, Blah, Blah..
Your Sponsor is not your Therapist.
The sooner we get over this mentality in AA the better off we’ll all be.
My bold typed part in my previous post is all there is to the sex inventory as per the book.
Where had we been selfish, dishonest, or inconsiderate? Whom had we hurt? Did we unjustifiably arouse jealousy, suspicion or bitterness? Where were we at fault, what should we have done instead?
That’s it!!!June 9, 2016 at 9:42 pm #4686892
well,this Friday I am going to do a 5th step with my step sponsor.I am not concerned a bit about telling him everything,after all that work,you bet I am.
He has looked into my notebooks all along so he`s already seem it all anyway.
one fact is,it did not kill us to do that stuff,it won`t kill us to go over it with a sponsor.
As a matter of fact,5th steps have always freed me from the stuff on the inventory.
if I had never done a 4th or 5th step,I really think I could not have stayed sober.
The big book inventory has always helped me,but once I did one with all those questions and they did not help me a bit.Another thing to remember is you are seeking the truth about it all.Good luck with itJune 9, 2016 at 11:15 pm #4686904
and like 1/4 of them are about sex. Very specific questions. How old were you when you first masturbated, how did you feel about that…right on down to “what is your sex life like”, and specifically, are you gay or bisexual.
i find that deeply worrying………
sorry….i dont say this very often but it has gotta be said.
please find another sponsor that works directly from the big book…….the way it was supposed to be.
way too many amateur therapist out there…
how old were you when you first masturbated…WTF…….does that not alarm bells in your head..?
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