Step 4 | 12 Step Meetings and Anonymous Groups - Part 3

Step 4



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    Still working step 4…..Did resentment list, fear list, shame/guilt list and working on sex list…Im going through alot of emotions but its ok….This is something I need to do….Easy does it ….”Life is like a box of chocolates you dont know what your gonna get” ….Clean



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    Anonymous

    Hi all, just read all your comments and they have all helped and enlightened me in some way so thanks u 🙂 My partner of 6 years is a recovering addict who has just started his step 4 which means he is bringing up alot of things that happened in the past, he is angry at me as all the things we have argued about when he was using are being brought back to the service. I am trying to stay strong but its hard as i too have tried to forget alot of it as it was a really hard time filled with lots of highs, lows, lyes so on and so forth. Would just like some advice on how i can help him and be as supportive as possible and if you have been in my bought what u did or what would of helped u when taking on that mighty step of 4 ??

    Thanks you



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    Anonymous

    @confusled 2857731 wrote:

    Hi all, just read all your comments and they have all helped and enlightened me in some way so thanks u 🙂 My partner of 6 years is a recovering addict who has just started his step 4 which means he is bringing up alot of things that happened in the past, he is angry at me as all the things we have argued about when he was using are being brought back to the service. I am trying to stay strong but its hard as i too have tried to forget alot of it as it was a really hard time filled with lots of highs, lows, lyes so on and so forth. Would just like some advice on how i can help him and be as supportive as possible and if you have been in my bought what u did or what would of helped u when taking on that mighty step of 4 ??

    Thanks you

    Hi Confusled,

    I think your question might be best answered in one of the “Friends & Family” forums. This “NA Step Study Forum” is supposed to be for addicts who are doing step work themselves – to share their experience, strength and hope with one another in regard to each step. We try to refrain from giving advice here…we simply share with one another what we’ve learned and the challenges we face in working the 12 steps.



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